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| LOVE should always rule |
Authoritarian
and permissive parenting are said to be the two
basic styles when it comes to disciplining children. The style of training the
kids depends on the circumstances their family are in.
However, both authoritarian and permissive parenting have
pros and cons.
Authoritarian and
permissive parenting can bring out both the positives and
negatives on your kids. Authoritarian style is when parents put numbers on
everything that their children should act. Kids are ordered to act in set
standards. When kids falter to follow rules, they will receive punishment. The
negative effect to children on this training style is that they they tend to
rebel when they grew up. They will try to show to their parents that they are
uncontrollable. Other kids think this is a normal set up thus history will repeat itself when they became parents too.
Permissive
parenting style is when the parents trust their kids and expect them to behave
well without any rules set. The aim is to give the kids training without the
parents being authoritative. The children can do whatever things they want.
Parents let them explore things. This is actually a good way of training
children to develop their sense of responsibility and awareness. The bad side of it is when
children themselves would never set any line that they won't cross and tends to
do things that they aren’t suppose to do.
Whatever rules we impose within our home, love should always rule and never fail to guide them and teach them in every step of their way.
Now
you know the difference between authoritarian
and permissive parenting, which of the two are you using to your kids?
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